Winning his heart back is simply a matter of showing them how you have been able to change anything that may have contributed to the end of your previous relationship.Most men will leave a relationship in the event that it becomes either stale or claustrophobic. Fortunately, both of these cases can be addressed and thus, help begin a "new" relationship with your ex boyfriend.
Before you begin the process of winning his heart back, take some time to determine what changes you will have to make to ensure the relationship will work a second time around. If you do not think these changes will be sustainable, it is not a good idea to try and get your ex back, as the new relationship will have the same problem as the old one and will only result in further heartbreak down the road for both you and your ex.
If you feel the necessary changes are sustainable, begin by contacting your ex. Initial contact should not be about the end of the relationship, feelings or the fact that you want him back. Winning his heart back will never be achieved by these methods. Simply contact him to inquire about his well being.
Slowly build up contact and when appropriate, invite him to participate in an activity that you used to enjoy as a couple. Participating in an activity together will allow him to see what he is missing out on and will remind him of the good times you may have shared together.
During your times together be sure to show him the efforts you have taken to change anything in your power that may have affected your relationship. Be sure to remain confident and independent, do not scare your ex further away by becoming clingy and obsessing over reasons why the relationship ended in the first place.
Be sure to maintain your fitness (or improve upon it if you have previously let yourself go). This will serve two purposes. First, it will gain the attention of your ex in a positive way and secondly, it will gain the attention of other males. Nothing will go further in winning his heart back than for your ex to know other men desire you.
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